Dating for the shy
On the other hand, many of the good looking guys who are shy are stuck alone or with a girl they’re not really attracted to. So the most important thing is to cut out any thoughts that sabotage your confidence or make you inhibited.
This means to notice when you are having self-defeating thought patterns and stop them in their tracks.
Back when I was shy around girls, I remember reading things like That type of advice would be great for someone who was already a blabbermouth, but how about the guy who is ACTUALLY SHY?
What about the guy who can’t walk up to a girl and talk to her because he feels too nervous?
Ask yourself: “How do I make myself feel inferior than other people?
It just means that you have some catching up to do because of your shyness or social anxiety. Inferiority makes you feel not entitled to be confident and express your personality.
They become infatuated with a girl just based on how she looks from a distance.
They haven’t even talked to her yet, yet they start to imagine a future together with her.
Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and inhibited around girls.
If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.